Stop forcing, and start flowing

Have you ever gotten the feeling that you were forcing a certain situation? Or, have you ever felt like you were forcing something you want right now because you’ve convinced yourself now is the time for you to have it? I’ve learned in life, some things are truly meant to flow. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve tried to force relationships, things I want in life, and even hairstyles that I knew made me look crazy (yes queen, stop forcing that hairstyle,  it’s time to let it go). I use to despise the saying ‘go with the flow’. I thought going with the flow meant you were uncertain, and or indecisive which are two things I never am. However, going with the flow can actually be a good thing. To me it means you may not have all the answers to your questions right now, but God will lead you in the right direction. It also means that you are okay with the uncertain because truthfully no one has all of the answers. There is no secret book where you can skip ahead, and determine exactly how your life will go. We want things, and people in our lives, and the hard truth is, it’s probably not what’s best for you queen. I live by the saying ‘what’s for you is for you’. Stop forcing things, and start to flow. You’ll find out flowing will give you peace, and lead you to things and people that are meant to be in your life. #Dontforcetheflow