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How My Ex Saved My Life

You know the expression ”when one door closes another one opens?” Actually one of my favorite rappers Gucci Mane said it best “miss one, next 15 ones coming.” In other words, just because it’s the end of something doesn’t mean better days are not ahead. Let’s rewind to two months ago. I was bawling my eyes out, losing my self-respect, and acting unusual over a man. Now if you know me, you know I’ve always wanted love. That Martin and Gina kind of love....

Not Quite 30

So I’m two months shy of my 26th birthday and I’m starting to have that “almost 30” feeling. This feeling is not only coming from within but also the pressures from others around me. “When are you buying a house, you’re pushing 30.” “Don’t you want to move up at your current job? You’re getting up there.” It’s both frustrating and annoying to be reminded of that invisible clock we all carry around in our minds. I am four years away from 30 and...

Surviving Quarantine (Couples Edition)

Have you been seeing posts about high divorce rates during this quarantine, and or people not getting along with their significant other? Let me start with, it’s okay if you and your boo have been bumping heads during this pandemic. With the uncertainty of the world, finances being at risk, and quite frankly people are dying, it’s a no brainer that you and your significant other might butt heads. So if you’re at home fighting over desk space, in need of some space, or...

Valentine’s Day Do’s and Dont’s: For The Lovers, Singles, and In Between

So you made the cut. Hey lovers. If it’s your first of many or another Valentine’s Day with your significant other, there are still some rules you must play by. If this will be your first Valentine’s Day with your bae, you should be prepared to go all out. Now all out does not necessarily mean a trip to Cancun or an expensive gift. As always, remember to act your wage. All out can simply mean dinner, a thoughtful gift, and or just something...

Queens Take Back Their Power

If you’re not ready to take back your power and stop letting people dog walk you, this post is not for you. Now that I have your attention, listen closely Queen. It’s time to sit on your throne. You deserve so much more than the crap you’ve been accustomed to. The reason why things keep coming back full circle is because you have not learned your lesson yet. God will not allow you to move forward until he knows you understand your worth and...