So you made it to 2019. Take a second, and be thankful that you made it into a new year. Now sis, it’s day 27 of the New Year and some of y’all are thinking, “this is my year.” However, it’s day 27 and the other half of you guys are thinking, “2019 is not it.” Well sis, I’m here to tell you both are absolutely wrong. Queen, not only is 2019 your year, but every year is your year. Every year you get...
It’s officially the holiday season. In the midst of traveling, shopping for my loved ones, and eating all my favorite foods I’ve had time to reflect on 2018. It’s December 2018, and 2019 is almost here. As I reflect over this year, I think about all the things I have accomplished, and I smile. But I can’t help but to dawn on the things that did not come to fruition in 2018. However, if you’ve been reading www.yougotthisqueen.com, you know that I’m not one...
So I finally had the opportunity to watch “Nappily Ever After”. I thought this movie would reinforce how important it is to love my natural hair. It did, however it also made me reflect on how we as women aspire to be perfect. For example, we are taught as women that we have to be strong. We have to be the backbone for our men, and our children. We have to put on a smile even when we are in pain. We have to...
Most people only associate the word ROI (Return on Investment) with investing in stocks. Return on Investment is the ratio between the net profit, and cost of investment resulting from an investment of some resources. So in layman’s terms, if you invest in stocks what will the return be, or how beneficial will the return be to you? This past week, I realized Return on Investment applies to so many things in life. When you invest your time and money into something, you must...
I have been taught to believe that being selfish is wrong. To a certain extent I agree. For example: if you love someone you should be selfless. You should consider that persons feelings and wants, and sometimes put their needs above your own. But if you’re a young woman on your grind, are you grinding towards a purpose and focusing on your personal growth? Or do you live by the code of not being selfish? If you had to choose between your growth, and...
So I’ve been calling you a queen, but I never really explained why I believe you are royalty. The definition of the word queen is the female ruler of an independent state, especially one who inherits the position by right of birth. Now I can’t speak for all, but most of us do not rule any states. So that brings me to my definition of a queen. A queen is someone who believes they are precious jewels, and carry’s them selves as a lady...
I see you’re still stepping in that sh** queen. Mhmm, it’s no judgment. I know what it’s like to feel as though you can’t leave something or someone alone, or the thought of being alone is more terrifying than being treated less than you deserve. This is not a judgment post. Consider this post a friendly reminder to remind you who the heck you are. See queen, I too forget sometimes that I’m that chick. Queen, you are everything someone is praying for. You...
Your words have power. From an early age my mom has always corrected me whenever I spoke negativity over my life, or even someone else’s life. I use to find this so frustrating. I would call my mom and say something that the average person would simply consider to be an expression. “I’m so tired of etc. I need this to be over!” My mom would reply to a statement like that “girl you better be careful what you say. Don’t you know your...
“Black women all over the world are shining. Practicing black girl magic, melanin on fleek, and thriving in their careers. But it is not their skin that makes them unique, but rather similar. However, It is their story and their journey that captivates people making each and every one special in their own way.” -Taylor Mills Early Childhood… April Gaines is originally from Philadelphia, but was raised in North Carolina. She grew up with her older sister, and mom who valued education. April Gaines...
Have you ever gotten the feeling that you were forcing a certain situation? Or, have you ever felt like you were forcing something you want right now because you’ve convinced yourself now is the time for you to have it? I’ve learned in life, some things are truly meant to flow. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve tried to force relationships, things I want in life, and even hairstyles that I knew made me look crazy (yes queen, stop forcing that hairstyle,...
